The Art Of Texting!
It's a mind game! It's about giving and reading expressions that aren’t exactly there! So it's totally a mind-game field, from giving the right impressions, to sound neither un-cheap nor clingy, so if you got the mind power, the right tactics and well, us, you don't have to worry no more.
So texting your mom or your suspicious brother is different than texting your date or your friends, it's also different for sure than texting your boyfriend or your potential boyfriend, so what is it going to be? Hard tries or easy fixes? It's all in a simple math plan, the right words and studying the situation exactly that going to give the exact message you'd like to give in person. However you can't deny this game is well sure to be and is a way to get people's interest, or losing it. It's more of a digit-communication for a real-life date in a cozy café'. Make sure to read it all, memorize it well and pay attention to the tips and tricks, here we go, txt away…
The rules of texting (TXT &
Don't text a guy too late at night if you two barely know each other!
Why? Cause if you do send a guy a late night message, he might be asleep and you could wake-him up, so he'll see you as his late-night annoyer! Also what if he didn't reply for some reason and that'll keep you on your nerves at night, wondering why he didn't reply, and that entire disturbing worrier storm could affect your sleepy time, making it hard for you to fall asleep. So never send after 10 p.m.
It's your part to end a call if you're the caller!
Why? It's one of the empowering tactics that gives you a stronger presence and sense in a well-mannered prestige, if you're the one to call anyone, then you're the one to end it, not him/her, it's a rule and it's a must-do routine you should stick to, this is the way it is and the way it should be. Don't ever let the other person end the call first, under one condition, unless he's the caller.
The Perfect Text, For The
Sitiuation Nom.1: At starbux, your friend is waiting for you for 15 minutes now, you're late again, and you're still are.
The prefect txt is: "I hate myself. 2 min I swear. Mean while u could touch urself on the image of Mat Damon and Ben Affleck kissing! Ur gay right?!"
Explanation: you're already late, the only thing you could do now is to ease up his/her temper, by leaning out the atmosphere, and a simple smile will do the trick, so that text includes a funny touch and with a sincere beginning, making him acknowledge that you know you're wrong and being apologetic-like.
Sitiuation Nom.2: You got caught by the Blue Fig's staff making out with date in a bathroom stall. You called a person you briefly know, who's related to the owner, while you just asked for a big favor to get your self and your date from a really embarrassing situation.
The prefect txt is: "hey babe it's….thx a lot 4 saving my butt 2day. I'm ever sorry 2 find a reason 2 call u. Anyways ur the best. Have fun at your trip. Again thx."
Explanation: You're not explaining your situation, your being thankful, and polite. Thankful for a favor you asked for even though you two barely know each other. Polite for apologizing for having an interior motive to call other than a friendly hi. You don't certainly need to save face, but you certainly need to be friendlier and polite.
Sitiuation Nom.3: A not-really-close friend just did you a huge help-out move, you feel so great toward it and feel so happy.
The prefect txt is: "hi…I just wanted thank u 4 everything u did 4 me. It means a lot that some 1 believes in me & supports me like u do. J"
Explanation: you're showing gratitude for the help and acknowledging it, sharing the happy achievement he helped you through, and putting him in the picture. Meaning you're not dismissing his help. And that's huge.
Texts You Send When you
Don't Want to Sound Cheap!
If he sends: "I want to kiss u tomorrow"
You send: (if you don’t know the guy well, but you still want to and you don’t want to seem easy) you txt back: "well that's confidant" >>> this way you're not say yes, and you're not saying no in the same time, yet you're making room for a convo about the subject without looking easy.
If he sends: "are you free, wanna hangout in my place?"
You send: (you're aware this casual hangout is going to end up in a major make-out session, and you don't want to sound available and easy right at the moment) you txt back >>> "yea sure! But I'm with friends now, I'll be off within 45 min, we have to finish this thing, maybe I'll pass then." That way you'll appear in a position of choosing your priorities right and not so hung up on the idea, plus it'll give you extra time to refreshing up, and look extra cute.
If he sends: "it was nice meeting you; you should come over one day and have coffee at my place..?"
You send: (you know where he's aiming, and you got him good. Thought you're not planning on going further than a date since you do like the guy and you want to see if he's up to your mind games) so you'll txt back: "it was certainly nice meeting you too. I'd like to have coffee one day, I heard about this place …. That serves a great late, we should go once" >>> this way you're showing interest though you're switching it to your comfort showing him you're in control, dismissing the rush or his idea, and keeping the interest of knowing him first.