We all know how to look at guys. We all know when to check guys out and we also know how dates could come at ease or with pushing effort. But keeping the interest, maintaining moments and capturing hearts is where the hard work really lays at. Keeping someone’s interest isn’t something to plan for or act-upon, it has to be the little things you do that will catch the other person’s interest in the body language you impose and well date maneuvers. So keep those 10 detailed tips intact and we guarantee you full-eye contact, and hopefully a lip-lock later on:
Make like Olivia-Newton John and go for a physical contact! When you’re on a date, occasional (appropriate) touching is a must for a good set of communication. Letting the other person know you’re interested. Or you’re connected with him on that level. So simple hand gestures over the shoulder or arms will do the tick.
Part of being on a date, is to know the person in front of you on simple, basic level, don’t stretch it by asking personal questions that may cause the person in front of you to be in uncomfortable situation. Let me ask you a Q: would you open up directly to a guy you just met? Would you answer his personal questions to you? No, right? So that what the other person expects of you as well.
Yea, tell me where to buy them and I’ll be the first in line! Sometimes it’s not easy to impose confidence even though we have a low percentage of it stocked up! But it’s in your body language, it’s in the way you talk, the way you fold your arms and so on. So next time you’re on a date, hold an eye contact for several seconds, then focus on something else in the face if you feel uncomfortable with holding it. Looking right into the other person’s eyes could turn into starring and could appear off intimidating. So ease up by focusing on different parts in the face, the nose, between the brows... Making jokes and being silly from time to time will take a lot of the tension off, and will show your silly side. Joking is another side of showing confidence. So talk about an embarrassing moment you faced earlier. Shame sharing with others is a nice way of starting a conversation.
Settle For Subtle
Fashion plays good part in first impressions and shaping your appearance. It doesn’t have to be a gay thing, or something to take seriously, it’s something to play up. Balancing between revealing and covering is a good point to start with. If you’re showing your tanned legs, then cover up the upper body part with a light sweater. Make sure when being urbanely fashionable to do the same with wearing your cologne or perfume. Spritz perfume in all the pulse areas; where the wind blows. Best areas are the inside of your wrists, behind your ears, and the back of your knees… that way, you’re being subtle in the way you’re dressed up, and the way you smell.
The Answer is No!
When being on a date ask lots of questions to keep the conversation flowing, which shows that you’re interested in knowing the person in front of you, and if the person in front of you asks you questions avoid giving straight answers like yes or no, it’ll cause awkward silence since you’re cutting the cords of a flowing conversation. You’re killing the communication. If you found yourself in awkward position joking about it will put you both in ease and will take some of the tension off.
Find Him on the Map!
It’s not a test for sure, but knowing the person you’re going out on a date with is important. Finding common interest that might get you both to open long convo-session. Asking about your date will give a familiar background with this person, which will make you feel more comfortable at your date. So do ask your friends about him, or the person who set you up or so...
Be A Social Butterfly
Being a social butterfly makes you appear more appealing and in demand. It’ll make you look desirable by others which will rise up your rates. Social people always have that appealing side that shows off confidence and that’s an A+ factor. So who knows who you’ll bump into while being out there meeting people and circling around…
Trash & Bash!
One of the things that will make you look unattractive is trashing other people in front of your date. Talking about other people’s fashion slip ups, or making fun of something they did will make you look very superficial, gossip-lover and just unattractive! Making less of others will only make the less of you!
What About Your Ex!
How about it? What a date common mistake that is! One of the No No topics is you “ex”! Why would your date be interested in knowing about your ex? Why would he want to hear what your ex does, why you broke up, why it’s “his” loss!? Why? You’re on a date with this guy cause you want to know each other, not knowing who you used to date. This extra baggage will make you less interesting to the person in front of you.
You, Yourself & You!
This date is about both of you, don’t be the center of attention and talking non-stop about yourself and about your issues or what so ever.Juggle both sides!