A reality going on for years, the love of a younger mind, and the affection of an older guy. When they say that love is unconditional, unlimited state, it’s true, but in order for you to have and gain a healthy gay relationship, age difference is a requirement you may need to reconsider before settling with it!
We haven for a beautiful crush between a teenager and a tween in our creative minds, a love of two men in there 30’s, we’re talking few years in age difference which is natural and many guys prefer to have a guy whose younger or older in age, and sometimes it's about the attraction, but what happen when the number gaps to the big "0", with 10, 20 and even 30 years in age difference? Is that right? Is that healthy? Before you start answering, start questioning yourself on “why going for an older or a younger guy?!” Find your answer that settles with a perfectly reasonable reason for not picking a guy from your own age group. Profeesionals do believe that teens and young adults should be around there age group type in relationships for inner requests! They need to be understood, and in able for that to happen they need to be around someone from there age group, where they both understand each other's issues, needs and share experiences and feelings to kow excatly what they're both going through.
You have to find the best situation for the both of your needs, because what maybe the need of one guy won’t be in the other’s interest! However going for a tween who is figuring out his life, experiencing his feelings, not knowing what he wants, won't suit the mature stable persona of yours, and from night outs to fun times, the other may restrain to stay in and hang around for smooch talks and walks which will collide to an age-habit clash. And for a reality check, unfair compromises might occur up, with the older guy trying to catch up with his guy, he might as well want things they shared, like the same favorite song they liked at 16, while the younger dude wants to fit and out-grow himself, ending up missing out on what his generation is usually doing, causing a chain of requirements they both can’t fulfill properly. While having a common interests between the couple is what really important, with sharing same interests and views, but when it comes to uploading a chameleons in there likes life with trying to duplicate your lover’s life, many people change everything about there lives trying to fit to there lover’s, and that’s terribly wrong, you don’t want to copy-paste your boyfriend’s life, you want to share and be yourself with him.
Just like every relationship, life isn't all Choclate milk and m&m's cookies, yet you don’t want to end up with a handful of compromises all the time, cause it won’t last that long, (and by it we mean the compromises) yet, many relationships do work, where the younger guy dismisses the unbalnced life of parties, one night stands and fooling around to a better lifestyle of maturity and a stable personality that is willing to settle for a serious relationship, maybe a family later, and that's when he seach for the suitable mind of a mature guy that will fill that part, and many couples are happily together, sharing the same future views and things they could both fulfill in each other’s life without a handful of obligations they might misunderstand at first, and yet, living a part that you want, and still with a world where compromises do exist in every couple’s life, having a relationship which is completely out proportion, having the age difference situation won't interfer your relationship when it's based on a strong bond, the sharing element and the right standards. Remember if you want it, you’ll make it work.