ALOMOST A VIRGIN!
When it comes to losing virginity, a growing generation is absolutely aware of the importance of its unique loss! A generation who save themselves for the right person of the future to come, and the issue isn’t a women’s or girls’ radical zone anymore, as much as its audacious to the gay Arabs, Muslims and Christians, locally and internationally. Numbers shows that many people ages from there late teens to there 30s are keeping themselves for the right person; “the one!” Many think and believe being gay is something wrong, and coming to facts, it ain’t going to change anytime soon, we hear a lot about those cases of foundations, medicines, cults and clinics that claim to help you get back to straight way, but are they really true? While in fact those self keepers do believe in is, if they’re already wrong, why then do so much wrong while I can wait for Mr. right to come, then I would minimize the wrong act as much as possible and live in peace with myself. Guarding virginity is becoming a very big and audible subject to discuss, starting for the goods of its safety methods and less one night stands.
Living a gay life doesn’t have to be as playful and sexualized as much do project the idea of it, it is a one way path, and it ain’t a game of life style if many think, and with such a subject to proportionally talk about, is it aiming to the right direction in it’s life-time self-saving act? And is your definition of being a virgin is right? And does it apply to everyone? Well. Many lesbians do believe that virginity requires a penetration of a peins, and many believe any action that stimulates your body is sex, like kissing and touching. And not every one get on the same page toward what the word “lose it” means! According to seventeen magazine and Sexetc.org, 15% says that getting fingered makes you not a virgin, also 29% says that giving or receiving oral sex also makes you less of a virgin, while engaging anal sex and ejaculation took a high percentage on virginity loss to 99% , and why the strong belief of such percentages comes from the act that takes the innocence away from you and that could make you feel less of a virgin, yet it’s all opinions, thoughts and different beliefs, and few do take the road of celibacy, and abstain from any sexual friction and contact, and some abstain from masturbation even, like Ron Belagu; philosophy student at the University of Michigan “it’s complicated to consider masturbation to be sex per se, but people who plan to live a celibate life should abstain from masturbation as well. It does have a temporary relief of sexual tension but, it feeds the sex drive on the long run which makes celibacy more difficult”. Shifting to a second virginity where people doesn’t know about which is even if you had sex before, you still have the option on staying abstain for the future, making us almost virgins!
What worries the most, is the management of religion and being gay in same time, but does it even work to be both, where religion does play a big part in such a decision, each with his own reason, for it’s minimum sin acts and other beliefs, while that doesn’t make living a gay life is offensive, it gives it a respectful clean more of a serious view, on waiting for the right man and losing it to “the one” and many do chose that path for it’s clean future, clean rep and inner peace, and it goes along with religion as close as its not and it could be the closest possibility to not over cross it. Harboring to the definition of the V word endorsement, it isn’t squared up in a box of agreement cause what’s not conventional about virginity could be conventional to you, as experts says about sex that it’s a really complicated field and there’s no “right” definition of virginity, only what’s right for you, and instead of trying to fit into the community’s or everyone’s definition, you should ask yourself what are you comfortable with right now?
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