My "Dating" review:
Are You Ready To
Meet Her?
By YasLam
There are many things in your mind before you meet her for the first time, where to go, what to wear, what to say….and many more. Ok let us talk about some of these
1- First of all, choosing the place that you will meet in is very important (Please do not ever think to take her to your house or even agree to go to her’s) this move is giving a wrong signal to some girls, it is as if you are telling her lets go to bed together now, and it is not appropriate especially that it is your first time to meet each other, so just choose a nice restaurant that you know that offers a nice menu that suits both of your tastes or go to a nice café. |
2- When it comes to what to wear, just wear simple clothes that speaks your inner spirit not the one that will give her a signal that you have lot of clothes, and avoid too much make – up or perfumes just be as simple as you can because simply everybody loves simplicity. |
P.S. Avoid picking an expensive place thinking that this will give her a good impression; well it might do for the first time, but what if she is the kind that cannot always afford going to such places, so she will feel embarrassed. And also what if you cannot afford treating her, so always just be yourself and go to a place that you can manage its bills.
My.Kali's Tip: As a sign of apperception for this nice moment being first time to meet each other, you can bring with you a very simple gift (like small white rose, ball pen, key chain. Why? A lot of people like to collect simple small things from their dates, to remember them by.) And avoid personal gifts, like T-shirts or perfumes; just keep such gifts until you become closer in your relationship.
3- When you are at the place, take time first to talk about how happy you are that finally you are dining out together and talking face to face, make nice comments about her dress and avoid holding the menu once you sit down and start to order. Tell her if this is your first time at this place or you have been there before, what is the good food or drinks they have, make it casual talks at the beginning so she will feel comfortable and at ease. When it is time to order food, choose a simple food and easy to eat because in the first place you are there to meet, not just to eat, so the time spent there must be by talking to her not eating. void ordering similar dishes, just have different ones so that you can share with each other on what both of you have, spoon feeding her from your dish will be a nice touch. While you are eating try to talk about some funny incidents that happened to you at work or at school in order to add a warm atmosphere. |
4- After eating you can order some drinks hot or cold and while drinking start to talk about both of you, ask her some questions that you have been wondering about, regarding her hobbies, some stories from her past and how did she get over them (previous relations) but in a way that will not disturb her and feel that you are doubting her words. |
P.S. - Some girls do not like that someone to pay their bill so you can share the amount of the bill, but in any case and once you receive the bill insist that you will be the one to pay and if you will feel that she want to share in paying and insisting so let her do what she want. On the other hand if she insisted to pay do not let her pay the whole amount you should insist to split the bill.